The PORN Supremacy.

A few years ago it was claimed that 37% (& more) of the internet was Porn. The figures, based on some very spurious analysis of selected website clicks and extrapolation, excited the religious, interested Governments and oft continue to be quoted in the media for shock & awe. In actual fact more reliable research reveals that only about 4% of the web is Porn and around 14% of web users regularly access it. But as there are so many unsought interconnections which pop up on Porn sites, duplication of content and other factors, the truth is, nobody really knows exactly how much of the internet is Porn. But, like the Universe, even less than 5% of it is still a hell of a lot.

Immersing into Porn over the past month for research (well that's my excuse anyway lol) I found,...

as with my July BDSM blog, images and activities disturbing in their extremity & subjugation of women and again wondered how much is consensual, how much coerced and how much simply for the cash? One thing is for sure, Porn sites are littered with pop up Free 'no strings' dating sites of gorgeous women just so willing for your cock. As if!

Enticingly Porn attracts ones attention, whether one likes it or not, and once temptation is given into and the curtain drawn aside, it hijacks the brain & stimulates neural pathways mean't for sex but doing it in such a way that it doesn't lead to (procreative) sex - excess masturbation perhaps? It tricks the brain into thinking it is being intimate with a partner when it is not. On the other end of the relationship there is nothing - just pixels. OK, you may be thinking "Are dolls any different?" - well at least dolls are physical and need a lot of care and attention. see /drupal/node/1513 .

The issue with Porn (aside from concerns about criminal coercion) is that:  It can become addictive, as evidenced by MRI scans revealing it affects the brain by activating pleasure centres in a similar way to drugs and 70% of Sex Therapist clients are being treated for porn addiction. Furthermore progressively more extreme images are often necessary to satisfy these neural pleasure pathways, just as with drugs. And it is changing the way men and women relate to each other emotionally and regarding intimacy - Over 20% of males involved would now rather watch Porn than have sex with a partner. Not so surprising really because for the vast majority of men and women they simply cannot realistically compete with the beautiful, sexy models & their activity portrayed in porn, much of which is stylised for the camera & effect and generally impractical for urban bedrooms (or any other room for that matter).  As a consequence, for many, their involvement with Porn tends to isolate them from family, friends, work and life. For the less discerning it is a problem when Porn is perceived as the norm - could this be one explanation for the increase in marital breakdowns and 1 in every 3 women claiming some degree of domestic abuse (just because they are not cock sucking, anal receptive, can't get enough, wild moaning porn star lookalikes?). 

One interesting statistic is that the bible belt, conservative states, and even the vatican city, have been found to 'consume' measurably more Porn than the global average. 

Personally I see no harm with and enjoy a bit of soft porn in moderation (as with all things) and believe for participants it can be quite arousing & liberating with pleasure derived from the thought of being so desired. Added to which one could speculate why so many young, trim, taut and terrific women show off their wares so openly on the net. While they can - after all, they understand (subconsciously if not consciously) that their window of opportunity is short and the flowers that once have bloomed all too soon wither and fade.

But the extent to which extreme vaginal, anal & oral banging, extreme subjugation and the obsession of seeing cum ejaculated over women, all too common, I find somewhat less than erotic & discombobulating and wonder where the sensuality & sexiness is in it to seduce, arouse and stimulate the senses.

Hugs and kisses

dolltime

PS: Another huge topic cut down to a minuscule blog for brevity. ie, two 50 min tv documentaries ('Head First - The Porn Ultimatum' & 'Porn on the Brain') are condensed to a couple of small sentences. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VOMtXa3vScY .

And a couple of references worth the read - the first darkly humorous, the second, a long read, but with some enlightening insights within.

http://www.cracked.com/article_21339_5-reasons-being-male-porn-star-less-fun-than-it-looks.html 

http://www.themonthly.com.au/issue/2011/september/1365560803/cordelia-fine/porn-ultimatum